JERUSALEM
– Watching her youngest son and his family descending the steps of a
jumbo jet emblazoned with the Nefesh B’Nefesh logo, June Glazer was
reminded of the day he was born 28 years ago.
"It
was an amazing feeling," said Glazer, who moved from Teaneck to Israel
in December with her husband, Jeffrey. "When I gave birth I was soaring
afterward, and I had a similar feeling of excitement and anticipation
and soaring as I watched the live video of each passenger coming down
the stairs of the plane. Excitement is mounting and everybody is
clapping and cheering."
Ahron Glazer and his wife Rena have been living in Oakland, Calif., for four years. Moving to Israel was always in their plans.
"Aliyah
was a joint decision when we got married," said Ahron Glazer, who grew
up in Teaneck along with his two older brothers. "But we wanted to be
part of a community for some time before, and that’s how we got to
California." They arrived on Aug. 19 with their 3 1/2-year-old
daughter, Ariana, and are living here in the capital not far from the
elder Glazers.
According
to the aliyah-assistance organization Nefesh B’Nefesh, which is
credited with helping 15,000 North American and British citizens move
to Israel in the past five years, more than 30 families from northern
New Jersey have arrived or were due to arrive this summer as new
immigrants: Shlomo Guttman and Serena and Daniel Hartstein from
Bergenfield; Daniel Glucksman and Jonathan and Devora Henner from
Clifton; Adina Kutnicki from Elmwood Park; Esther and David Ilan from
Englewood; Keith and Tara Eliwatt, Parandoush and Oren Franks, Aliza
Nadel and Daniel Lewkowicz, Elaine Berger and Jay Riesel, Mindy Davis,
Leah Rothman, Raizel Gershonowitz, and Ephraim and Bracha Greene from
Passaic; and Gwen Peretz and Richard Normile, Ben and Kaila Shimshak,
Leon and Alicia Isaacson, Joy Krug, Deena and Zvi Kahane, and Jason and
Jennifer Schwartz from Teaneck.
The
Schwartzes — accompanied by their children Jonathan, Elliot, triplets
Meira, Akiva and Gabriel, Daniel, and Ariel — arrived on Aug. 13 and
are among the pioneer families in Nofei HaShemesh, an "American-style"
modern Orthodox community in Beit Shemesh.
Other
new arrivals preferred more diverse communities. Ezra Gilbert, 27, who
— like Ahron Glazer — grew up in Teaneck, came to the culturally and
religiously mixed city of Modi’in on Aug. 26 from Highland Park.
Gilbert
and his wife, Roni, a native Israeli brought up in Pennsylvania, had
started looking into aliyah five years ago but proceeded slowly.
"We
went to Nefesh B’Nefesh meetings and at a certain time we decided to
take a few steps, like opening a tik [file] at the Jewish Agency," said
Gilbert. "We didn’t think about the big scary picture of moving to a
new country; we just took it step by step, and then saw we could do it
this summer. Maybe by saying publicly that we wanted to make aliyah
five years ago kept it current and out there so when the opportunity
came, we were already ‘people who wanted to make aliyah.’ It was not
overwhelming that way."
The Gilberts’ transition
has been eased by a combination of planning and good fortune. They
decided to speak only Hebrew to their children, Leora — who turned 3
the day they arrived — and 11-month-old Tiferet, making Leora’s first
day of preschool stress-free. Plus, Gilbert was employed by Avaya, a
company with a Tel Aviv office.
"I feel like we’re the ideal oleh [immigrant] family because we have the language and I transferred my job here," he said.
Originally,
Avaya’s New Jersey branch had agreed to let Gilbert work from a
distance in his existing high-tech position. But while he was in-flight
to Israel, his whole team in New Jersey was laid off. The Tel Aviv
branch, which had met him two years ago when he came on a three-week
business trip, welcomed him with open arms.
"I’m
still deciding on the best way of getting there," said Gilbert, whose
current hour-long commute cuts into his time with his daughters. But he
is nevertheless pleased with their experience thus far.
"I
am impressed with how much everybody loves kids here," he said. "I’ve
never seen anything like it. Everybody is oogling over our baby — five
people manning the grill at Burgers Bar, little boys on the street, and
even a woman waiting with us at the income tax office. She picked
Tiferet up and held her for 20 minutes during our meeting."
In
his Nefesh B’Nefesh application essay, Gilbert had written:
"Statistically, Israel is the only country in the world where the
Jewish population is growing instead of shrinking. To me, that means
there is a greater chance of my children growing up Jewish, not
intermarrying, and, God willing, the same will be true for their
children as well."
Still, a cross-continental move
is a major undertaking. Ahron Glazer said the most difficult aspect was
"leaving the comfort zone and learning how to play the game again. When
you move from one state to another it’s more or less the same rules,
but here, while for the most part things work the same, some things are
very different culturally and otherwise."
However, he added, "We’re fairly flexible and easy-going and we’ll roll with the punches and make the best of it."
Glazer
emphasized that there are many welcome changes as well. "In California,
we didn’t have any family at all," he said. "Here we have my parents
and Rena’s brother, who just finished the army. Rena’s parents in
Chicago also hope to make aliyah. I am feeling Israeli, feeling a real
connection to the Jewish people and to Israel."
For his parents, the opportunity to see their grandchildren growing up in Israel gives them "a feeling of completion."
"Now
they’re experiencing something similar to what we experienced when we
arrived," said June Glazer, "walking around saying, ‘We live here, we
live here.’ And we are saying, ‘They live here, they live here!’"