The
December 26, 2007 El Al flight from New York to Israel was different,
more animated than usual. The usual crowds of families saying goodbye
to loved ones at the airport were joined by Danny Ayalon, former
Israeli ambassador to the United States, and Tal Brody, the
American-Israeli basketball star of Maccabi Tel-Aviv. But perhaps what
was most unique was that the flight carried 191 new olim-immigrants to Israel-preparing to start new lives in Israel.
The charter flight was one of over a dozen sponsored each year by Nefesh b’Nefesh, an organization which facilitates aliyah from North America and England. In addition to providing charter flights, it helps with pre-aliyah planning and absorption, provides forums for olim to
meet one another, and offers financial assistance as well. This flight
in particular had over 100 young people, who spent much of the flight
meeting and giving advice to one another.
Despite sharing the common goal of aliyah,
these young North Americans failed to fit into any single stereotype.
Marna Lew, 26, originally from Wilmington, Delaware, had traveled to
Israel several times before. She realized, “I didn’t belong in the
US—it was ingrained in me that Israel is where I belong—this is where I
want to raise my children.”
Others
were more practical than idealistic. Ryan Seideman, 23, from Long
Island, was on the flight to join his Israeli girlfriend. “We met in
college, and she returned to Israel to complete her army service.”
Motivations aside, the olim differed in what they felt was necessary in order to prepare for their
arrival in Israel. Via the Nefesh b’Nefesh employment office, Lew was
able to find a job that matched her educational background and career
goals. “I recommend that people make a pilot trip and should definitely
look into job opportunities before you get here,” she said.
Although
planning is recommended by Nefesh b’Nefesh and the Jewish Agency, it’s
not for everyone. Seideman takes a contrary view, saying, “People who
plan out details are full of shit—you can’t plan out your life.” He
hoped that Nefesh b’Nefesh would help him find a job in the future, but
first wanted to focus on learning Hebrew and starting his mandatory
army service.
Seideman was not alone in planning to serve in the Israeli Defense Force. 30 olim on the flight planned to enter the IDF in the next six months, some starting only days after they got off the plane.
While there were those who viewed army service as a necessary but uninspiring obligation, some olim were looking forward to the opportunity to serve the Jewish State.
Leor
Suissa, 24, from Marlboro, New Jersey, was enthusiastic about his
impending induction into the IDF. “I was always interested in the
military, but people told me, `Don’t go the US Army—go to the Israeli
army!’” As he was already past the prime draft age, he had to fight for
acceptance into the full three-year army service, but he seemed
undaunted by the challenge. “I’m thinking about serving in a tank
unit,” he said. “That way I can advance higher and faster.”
Other olim were
not as gung-ho about obligatory military service, but rather saw it
simply as a means to integrate into Israeli society. “I don’t want to
go into the army but feel that I should. I wouldn’t be Israeli if I
didn’t,” said Jeremy Shir, 25, from Boston and Miami.
One common thread among the new olim was the need to learn Hebrew. Some, like Shir, had concrete plans to enroll in ulpan, or intensive Hebrew study class. Indeed, he moved to Kibbutz Maagan Michael to attend a kibbutz ulpan, which included both Hebrew study and work on the kibbutz.
On the other hand, Lew is disappointed that so far no ulpanim have fit into her work schedule. Nevertheless, she has seen her Hebrew improve exponentially since she made aliyah and began work. “I’ve learned on the job. I had little formal language training, and yet I can read emails now.”
She
scorns her fellow Anglos who rely on their English skills to get by. “I
have a lot of trouble with Americans who come to Israel and think `I’ll
just speak English’—it frustrates me. News flash: you have to try!”
Three
months after the Nefesh b’Nefesh flight, she is still adapting to life
in Israel. “I want to be part of the society here, and I make an effort
every day to earn that teudat zehut [Israeli identification card]… Sure, it’s been hard. Am I happy with it? For the most part. I know I’m in the right place.”
Simi
Hinden is the Advertising and Circulation Director for PresenTense. She
lives in Jerusalem and is excited about her imminent aliyah.