Best of Both Worlds
by Romi Sussman (NBN 04)
Lamdeni Regional Director of Jerusalem & Gush Etzion
Lamdeni Director of English Programming

As a part of Lamdeni Educational Services, I am proud and thrilled to witness the progress that these students make when given the initial assistance that they need. There are a number of important "do's and don'ts" in the first year.

Do share with your children that you are going through the process together. If you are in Ulpan, or are struggling with Hebrew, express this to your children and let them watch you working as well. It's helpful for them to see that you are also new and struggling.

Don't overpressure your children in the first year. Don't worry if they are struggling with geography, history, or other language-heavy classes. Help them to gain confidence in themselves by focusing on their successes during the year.

Do encourage and focus on only a few subject areas in the first year. Encourage them to work hard at Hebrew, limudei kodesh and math during the first year. These are areas where we focus the most attention and where we see skills that build on themselves.

Don't discourage your children from hanging out with English speakers. As long as they are also making an effort to integrate with Israeli children, there is nothing wrong with them having this security blanket.

Finally, do be a "nice nudnik." Call the homeroom teacher as often as you need. Get their cell phone number. Don't feel that this is impolite or aggressive - it's assertive and normal for Israelis.

Ask as many questions of others as you feel necessary. Lamdeni, and many others, are here to help and guide you.